
Happy Friday.
This week I made a 3 hour trip (twice) to adopt this sweet puppy with the help of several people.
After I made a facebook status about it, only to get an email a few minutes later from my lovely friend, Jessica of Girl Booklet saying that I need to update that status to include that anyone that bought an ad from me would get one from her as well-two for the price of one-in hopes to help me raise money to adopt her. Updated status, lots of ad spaces bought, and a blog post made about it, I was almost there! Then my friend, Tawny messaged (and called) me to ask how much more I needed. Within a few hours (once she got home) there was the exact amount sitting in my paypal account.
A few more ads were bought so I actually ended up with a bit over what I needed. So I made a trip to the thrift store.
I had read that the shelter was in need of donations: blankets and towels, so I used the extra money I raised to buy a few and while there I started talking to one of the ladies that worked there. She told me she'd check the back for me to see if they had any and I just assumed she meant that they just hadn't put out yet. Imagine my surprise when she came back with the manager who then informed me that that's what they do with all the linens that get donated to them that they can't sell! She sent the lady into the back to check for me and came back with a trash bag full of em! I ended up dropping off two full bags for them!
This week just made me so happy! So many people helped out in raising the money to save her and keep her from being put down.
But as quickly as all of that happened and as quickly as I was reminded that there are really amazing people out there, I was just as quickly reminded that some people don't take too kindly to good deeds. I actually really upset someone this week.
I'm a bit taken back by the response I received, it actually made me question this whole 52 weeks project and made me want to quit all together. I've also noticed that I've seemed to interact with people in the blogging world--social media friends a lot less than normal after this experience. I feel like I'm just walking on eggshells and that greatly upsets me.
I'll probably be back next week with week 13 but I don't see it being anything major or anything big. This experience just made me a lot more cautious about the good deeds I try to do. Which makes me really sad because I started this project in attempts to just brighten a few days because I'd been having such a hard time and such a crappy time that I just thought, "I don't want others to go through this.... I'm going to make sure to make someone happy AT LEAST once a week" and now I'm just kind of crushed. I'll get over it. I'll be back, but right now..... I just don't even know if I really want to continue this.
Oh on a brighter note, Lucy. Her name will be Lucy. David inadvertently came up with the name while spouting off names he thought I'd find entertaining. He said, "Lucy..... in the sky with diamonds" and I laughed but then thought, "Oh I do like that".
And since we have a Bo Duke I thought that Lucy seemed like the female equivalent to Luke Duke.
That's completely logical right?! Also, I'm a die hard Beatles fan (I blame my Aunt Dee Dee) and so when he said that I just got a bit giddy and have had the song stuck in my head for days now.



15 comments:
Don't ever let someone make you doubt yourself or what you're doing! That lady clearly is in the need for some random kindness in her life! I don't leave my house often enough to do nice things for people (sad but true) but I try to pick up something for the gate guards every time I come back on post. It's always do etching small and insignificant, but what seems like just a bottle of soda to me, is a random stranger bringing them something to drink while they're stuck in a box all day. It's in the eye of the people involved, and some people just have a negative outlook. Lucy is ADORABLE and is very lucky that you and your bloggy friends saved her!
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Thanks phone.
Some people are just assholes. Don't let one bad egg get you down, just remember all the awesome people who pitched in to help save Lucy!
Who would have a bad response to this?!!! You're a doll. Don't let anyone dull your shine lady :)
Dont STOP (believing). But really, don't stop. I love coming a reading what you did that week. It is so amazing that you made it this far. I think week 13 will be better. Just keep it up and know there are people out there looking forward to these.
Also, I am a huge Beatles fan too so I love Lucy.
Cody
catchingcodyk.blogspot.com
Oh I am so sorry that one jerk ruined your week and project like that! Hang in there, this too shall pass.
I love your little puppy and the name. Of course my dog's name is Rita and I've been singing "Lovely Rita, Meter Maid" to her since she came home! =)
See.... there is only 1 person that hasn't like your good deed (the receiver). I can bet you'll have TONS of comments here! Keep this up Amber! You gotta have something OUTTA THIS WORLD for week 13. Some think 13 is an unlucky number, show them it's not!!!!
Lucy's blue eyes are just gorgeous! Your kids will be so excited to play with her.
You, in my opinion, are doing something productive with your blog. Don't let others make you feel like you're not! Social media is great for connecting (let's face it, we love it), but some people take it too far.
Hey Love, I'm your newbie follower from the bloglovin hop!I had a very upsetting incident happen to me regarding nasty mean comments on my blog. It really hurt me that someone could be so mean, for no reason.
Don't stop what you are doing. Keep going! I enjoyed your post, and the pup is soooooo adorable.
xoxo,
Carica
Don't stop with your acts of kindness. I really enjoy reading them every week on your blog. Don't let the negative people get you down. :)
Aw, what happened? Some people suck...but you don't. You're doing a great thing. I must have missed all this puppy love/raising $ ! Lucy is a cutie...beware, though. My parents have a dog named Lucy and she is quite a character. Crazy, weird dog. We blame it on naming her after Lucy in the sky with diamonds. ;)
Aww, so absolutely adorable!
xx
Kelly
Sparkles and Shoes
Congratulations on the adoption of Miss Lucy!!! Hooray. I'm so happy for your and your family and that sweet little puppy.
Please don't give up on your acts of kindness, they do mean something. It's the little things that mean the most. There are people out there that just want to bring others down. Doing good deeds is ALWAYS the right thing to do. So please keep spreading love and kindness.
I haven't blogged about this week's random act of kindness but I'll share it here. I have an online friend who is always very kind and thoughtful to me. When she knows I'm having a difficult time she'll surprise me with a small little gift in the mail just to let me know she's thinking of me. She always has lots of great ideas and is very creative so this week, I got her a personalized notebook for her ideas from my shop that I am packaging up today to send out to her. It will be a complete surprise when she gets it and I hope it will make her smile. I also left "spread kindness" cards in the grocery store and with the tip to our server when we had dinner out. I always try to carry some in my purse and leave them in random places when I'm out for people to find.
And again, congratulations on sweet little Lucy! Sounds like she's hit the jackpot with a wonderful, loving home and family to take care of her.
Omg you got a puppy!! That's so exciting. She's adorable.
Don't let some jerk ruin something you enjoy! I can't believe someone would get mad at you for doing a good deed! Some people just like to put others down in order to make themselves feel better. I wonder if that's what it was about. Regardless of the reason, it's a pretty crappy thing to do. Sorry you had to go through that. I say ignore any haters because you and tons of others know your heart is in the right place and that what you're doing means a lot to those you are helping. There are always bumps in the road but I think if you keep it up, at the end of the year you'll be so happy you kept going. Don't let that person win! *hug*
You Amber are generous, sweet, pretty, sincere, smart, and beautiful. DON'T EVER LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN! I am glad you were able to bring LUCY home! (Love the new name btw!) She is lucky to have an owner like you!
XOXO, Jessica from Girl Booklet
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